Hey friend,
Quick question for you:
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "It'll never get any better" or "It's impossible to get ahead"?
Maybe it's about money. Maybe it's about parenting. Maybe it's your career or just life in general.
I get it. I've been there. And honestly? This might be one of the most damaging mindsets you can be in.
But here's the good news: You can shift it. Today. Right now.
The Question That Changes Everything
When you catch yourself thinking "It's impossible," I want you to stop and ask yourself one simple question:
"Is that really true?"
Because here's what I've learned: Most of the time, it's NOT true. It just FEELS true.
You're stuck. You're tired. You're overwhelmed. And your brain is trying to protect you by saying, "Don't even try. You'll just fail anyway."
But that's a lie.
You Have a Choice
You can choose to stay stuck. You can keep telling yourself it's impossible.
OR
You can choose to look for examples of people who have become unstuck and succeeded—and know in your heart that you can succeed too.
Last week, I talked to a woman who grew up in a war-torn country. She went through some really horrible stuff that I can't even begin to imagine. And you know what? She's making it as a single mom. She's thriving.
If she can do it, what's your excuse?
I don't say that to be harsh. I say it to wake you up.
Because there are loads of situations we can give ourselves excuses about. We can choose not to try.
But if you really want something different? If you want to change?
You must put in the work.
There Is Nothing You Can't Turn Around
I mean that. NOTHING.
Your debt? You can turn it around.
Your career? You can turn it around.
Your relationship with money? You can turn it around.
Your confidence? Your peace? Your future? You can turn it around.
But first, you have to believe it's possible.
Help is out there. Hope is out there. You just have to believe.
And then? You have to take the first step.
So Here's My Challenge
The next time you catch yourself thinking "It's impossible" or "It'll never get better," stop.
Ask yourself: "Is that really true?"
And then look for evidence that it's NOT true. Find someone who's done what you want to do. Read their story. Let it sink in that if they can do it, so can you.
You're more capable than you think. You're stronger than you believe. And you're closer to breakthrough than you realize.
But you have to choose to believe it.
You've got this. I know you do.
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Cheering for you always,
Jenny 💙
P.S. Hit reply and tell me—what's one belief you need to challenge this week? What "impossible" thing are you ready to believe IS possible? I want to hear from you!
Something I think you'll like…
My friend Stephanie created a simple, practical guide to help overwhelmed moms move through their day with more clarity and focus—especially when you're juggling all the hats.
​Get her guide to Achieve Clarity & Focus for Moms here.​
See you next week!
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